I think I need a healthy separation between kink and my love life. I don’t like to bring my work home with me. But the men in my life have been good with it. A lot of guys get jealous because we’re seeing naked men. I know some doms can have issues as far as dating goes. Most people just smile and ask questions. (Well, I don’t tell my grandparents-they wouldn’t understand!) Plus, I really love living in New York where I can pretty much tell anyone about my job and they don’t have this shocked reaction. I’m very lucky in that I have open-minded friends and family. Some men are allowed to masturbate at the end of the session-but part of being a dominatrix is that I get to decide whether or not they do so. Generally, there’s no sex or penetration, and the men don’t touch or stimulate our genitals. As a general rule, I don’t do nudity because I don’t feel dominant when I’m nude, but all doms are different. There’s also face slapping, hair pulling, nipple torture, cock and ball torture, spanking, role playing, leather fetishes, and foot fetishes. I find that the best way to make someone feel submissive is to use bondage while they’re naked. In our culture, men are often expected to be dominant and in control, but many of them that want to let go and be dominated. But one thing that stays consistent is that the man or woman becomes submissive to the female dom, a.k.a. Since each person who comes to the dungeon has unique preferences, there really isn’t a typical session. RELATED: 14 Signs You’re Secretly a Freak in the Sheets Lots of these men are married, but they don’t feel comfortable exploring their kinky side with their partner because it’s taboo or they’re ashamed. I get a lot of finance or business guys in their forties. However, since my services aren't cheap, about $300 an hour, that narrows the pool of people coming in. Whether our members need information about a claim, benefit guidance or additional coverage, help is just a phone call or click away. The clients that I see come in from all walks of life-older, younger, and from many different countries. In our case, that’s Fort Worth, Texas, where our dedicated Member Services Team is standing by, ready to assist. I love playing with women and couples, as well as hosting educational sessions. While most of my clients are men, I encourage women to come in, too. RELATED: 11 Guys Told Us What They Honestly Think About BDSMįrom there, I went out on my own, opening a dungeon, which I call my studio, and started building a client base through different websites and social media. I’ve also read books on kink, and taken advanced classes to learn how to play with electro toys, needles, sounds, and suspension equipment. That entailed about a week of watching other doms in action, then participating in sessions under the guidance of my mentors, and learning to use ropes, whips, and other toys. When I decided I wanted to become a dom full time, I went to a dungeon in New York for training.
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